Sunday, September 10, 2023

Part II: For God's sake, let's change the life style for good!

This is the 2nd and final part of the article on changing our lifestyle for a healthy life:

A new study just came out last week to affirm the alarming rate of cancer, a metabolic dysfunctional disease, that we're experiencing in our society: “Researchers examined data from 204 countries between 1990 and 2019. They found that there were more than 3.26 million early-onset cancer cases reported in those countries in 2019, up from 1.82 million in 1990, an increase of 79.1%". It has concluded that "Encouraging a healthy lifestyle, including a healthy diet, the restriction of tobacco and alcohol consumption and appropriate outdoor activity, could reduce the burden of early-onset cancer."[i]. So, there's no way out of it without changing our lifestyle for good. Read the Part-I if you haven't before continuing this final part.

Stage 2: live a normal active life

This stage is a vital companion to the previous one, as it plays a crucial role in making sustainability achievable. Our bodies are designed for regular physical activity, and our metabolic system, brain function, and hormone secretion all work in harmony when we are active. For instance, engaging in activities such as walking can lower stress levels and enhance the overall performance of our metabolic system and body.

So, how can we accomplish this?

If your profession needs you to do physical work, then you’re blessed. Then you don’t need this physical activity advises. However, if you’re not lucky enough to be physically active at your work then do physical work at home, walk to workplace or at least to a transportation station, do gardening, add a physical activity-based work, etc. Bottom line is- try to do things physically.

If you’re constrained to not to manage physical activities, you must compensate through regular walking, cycling, jogging, hiking etc. It’s always better to go outside. Nature is our friend. If you absolutely can’t manage to go out, go to the gym as a last resort. Be active for at least for an hour or more every day.  One thing we don’t realize that doing those exercise or vain physical activities are a very recent construct that comes with a heavy cost: waste of time and money. Think about an hour of walk, jog or run on treadmill. You’re not doing anything productive in that hour, moreover you’re burning the calories from food that you spend money for. Except the being active (which is needed for sure) you’re not achieving anything productive. Here’s an analogy: you’ve a car that you drive rarely. So, to save damage of your car battery, tire and breaks, you need to drive it occasionally and you take a short tour around the neighborhood. Do you achieve anything from that car? Car is supposed to take you form one place to another place but you’re not achieving that goal. So, you burned fuel and your time to keep it healthy for longevity. Instead, if you had used for, such as, drop your kids, commute to work or visiting a place, you would have achieved both function: transportation and longevity. So, to compensate that waste, fill the time with some kind of productive action, such as, listen to a podcast to gain knowledge, ponder about your life, or intentionally relaxing to gain energy for the next activity.

Muslims have few mandatory physical activities throughout the day. Five daily prayer is a combination of mental, physical and spiritual acts. For five daily prayers, you’re doing at least 17 (and upwards of 31) bending, sit-up, 34 (to 62) partial-pushups, 5 (to 11) neck-stretches, standing straight for 20-40 minutes (depends on your time), etc. Moreover, the prayers come with washing and cleansing of hands-face-mouth-feet before each prayer. It's also recommended to brush (using natural chewing stick from Salvadora persica known as miswak[ii]) teeth before the prayers. I’ve only touched upon the physical part alone but the greater benefits come with meditation, devotion and spirituality that are also key for our psychological wellbeing.

Additionally, it’s highly recommended to go to masjid every day for the five daily prayers. If you can do that, then you’re not only achieving all those above-mentioned benefits but you’re also getting social interaction and meeting with fellow human beings. In the prayer at masjid, you’re required to stand in a row next to each other shoulder-to-shoulder. This is also scientifically proven that human touch creates flow of oxytocin that is necessary for healthy living. According to NIH research: “Inter-individual touch can be a desirable reward that can both relieve negative affect and evoke strong feelings of pleasure”[iii]

Stage 3: Limit exposures to chemicals and plastics

The above two stages should solve majority our problem. However, our modern world has been flooded by chemicals: plastic (and Styrofoam) containers, cups, bowls, utensils, insect sprays, sunscreens, dishwasher detergents, cleaning chemicals, paints and the list go on. Our modern life is surrounded by all those chemicals. Read the warning signs of many plastic, rubber and chemical products and you will read that many of them are known for cancer, birth defects or other reproductive harms.[iv] Here’s the list of chemicals that are being proposed to add the warnings in their labels.[v]            

I will add few specifics for your awareness:

Avoid any plastic items for warm and hot foods. Never put them into the microwave

Plastic or Styrofoam cups for hot coffee or tea are bad but even the apparent paper cups mostly come with a thin plastic layer that creates micro-plastic particles and gets into our metabolic system.[vi]

PFAS is a chemical that has been used indiscriminately in our products for decades. Here’s what NIH is now saying: “altered immune and thyroid function, liver disease, lipid and insulin dysregulation, kidney disease, adverse reproductive and developmental outcomes, and cancer.”[vii] What are the products that has PFAS chemical? You would be horrified by seeing the list[viii]: Cleaning products; Water-resistant fabrics, such as rain jackets, umbrellas and tents; Grease-resistant paper; Nonstick cookware; Personal care products, like shampoo, dental floss, nail polish, and eye makeup; Stain-resistant coatings used on carpets, upholstery, and other fabrics. Can you avoid them all? I doubt. But I don’t think it’s worth it surrender to it and get those diseases like kidney disease, cancer, lipid/insulin or liver diseases.

There are other chemicals that are hard for us to avoid because those are in public sphere such as water contamination, air pollution, pesticides or other chemicals used in farms, etc. More we can limit those exposure the better support we would provide our body to recover, whatever it can.

Stage 4: Break the chain of excessive consumption and reject materialistic rat race

“Children of Adam! wear your beautiful apparel at every time and place of prayer: eat and drink: But waste not by excess, for Allah loveth not the wasters” (7:31)

The excessiveness of our consumption is causing anxiety in our lives and creating huge pollution on earth. The development of countries is synonymous with excessive consumption. Capitalism is ingrained in the concept of excessive consumption. If you take an example of the USA (similar stories are everywhere in many other countries), excessive consumption is visible everywhere. The massive solar thermal power plant in the Mojave Desert of California, miles after miles of solar panels by destroying the desert ecosystem, leveling off the mountains in Utah for minerals, massive farms in Oklahoma/Kansas (and the list goes on) are a few examples of our excessive consumption. We eat more than we should, we throw 40% of food into the trash (it’s from statistical data), we build huge houses for a few people that take up more land, require more building materials, and consume more energy. Scientists and environmentalists talk about saving the earth by reducing carbon footprint but we should save ourselves from excessive consumption and waste to save the earth. If we reduce our excessive consumption then our production would be reduced and we would create less pollution, less toxic products (plastics, chemicals, etc.), and less of everything. Because of our actions driven by greed and consumption, we are wreaking havoc on this earth.

Then it comes to the rat race to create ability to unlimited consumption. Most of us may not even realize that we are living a life where our success is defined by what profession I am in, what’s my job title, how much money I make, how big of a house I live in, what car I drive, or what my children are accomplishing following our footsteps. Essentially, what social status I am holding in comparison to others.

Someone else defines what success means in our life and we race to reach that without even questioning their background or motives. Someone else defines how to live our life and we immediately start to fit ourselves into that lifestyle. Someone defined that I have to work like slaves for the week and wait for the weekend to recharge, I have to go for vacation few times in a year to leave the nightmare we set ourselves in, I have to enjoy summer- repeatedly again and again year after year- repeating it like a forever loop, I have to earn tons of money for 67 years before I retire and nothing’s left off of my youth for doing anything meaningful for the purpose of my life.

We think those materials would give us happiness until we find that they are not. It is like - when you are thirsty for water but only thing you are given is salty water to quench your thirst but that makes you thirstier until we collapse emotionally, psychologically, or physically.

Why those “make us happy” materials don’t give us tranquility? Because we aren’t created for that. As soon as we reach a height of success then we see the next height to reach and then the next. But for what? As soon as that question starts to come to your mind you get no answer. This materialistic system doesn’t even want you to even ask that question- it makes sure by keeping you busy at all the time and not allowing you a free time alone to reflect- lest your eyes become wide open! Because once you know that you are going to leave all of the worldly success any time or in a matter of just a few years- in 40, 60 or 80 years- in comparison to the life of eternity. You realize that you are collecting all “the stuff” what people in the past had left in this world. Then what? That will make you anxious- what are you heading towards? Some of us can’t take it anymore and declare that there’s no life hereafter and just wish to let it end. Then it comes to their mind - why are they racing for materialistic success? Then they try to come to new innovative thoughts. Rest of us who aren’t dumb enough to declare that non-sense, gets scary as we aren’t collecting anything for that journey and start hopelessly hoping for nothing.

Then we start taking drugs to continue living for materials: some of us take alcohol to forget the reality; some of us take psychiatric drugs to keep us out of stress and depression; some take blood pressure or Cholesterol drugs to keep body running for the rat race; some take vacation pills in every season, every month or every weekend to forget the madness of the race; some take “materialistic success” drug to show off to others that they are doing better than all the others around them; every one of us are on some kind of drugs!

So, what can we do to break free from the relentless pursuit of materialism? Here are a few thoughts:

Define Concrete Material Goals: Start by setting clear and concrete goals for your materialistic pursuits. Ask yourself questions such as: How much money do you want to earn, and why is it important? How many degrees do you wish to attain, and what purpose will they serve? What size of a house do you need, and how does it align with your life objectives? Repeat this process for all other materialistic desires. This might seem straightforward, but failing to establish well-defined goals can lead you unknowingly into the materialistic rat race. Often, once you achieve a career, social, or financial milestone, you find yourself unsatisfied and immediately striving for the next one. How many times have you thought, if you just get that promotion, a certain salary increase, a particular position, or attain a specific social status, then “I'll be all set"? Yet, shortly after reaching these goals, you set new, even higher ones. The pursuit of material possessions never ends until our last breath. Imam Al-Ghazzali likened our thirst for worldly materials to drinking from a salty sea – the more you drink, the thirstier you become until you meet your demise due to the saltiness. Therefore, write down your materialistic goals and regularly evaluate your progress. Cultivate contentment with what you've achieved.

Avoid External Influences: Be cautious not to let external influences define your materialistic goals. It's easy to underestimate how much we are influenced by our surroundings. In psychology, this phenomenon is known as "social pressure," "social conformity," or "peer pressure." It can create an illusion of control over your goals when, in reality, you are merely reacting to societal influences. Remember that you must set these goals for yourself. To prevent others from shaping your aspirations, regularly assess whether your materialistic goals align with your personal values and desires.

Distinguish Material Desires from Spiritual Aspirations: It's crucial not to confuse your temporal materialistic desires with your pursuit of eternal success in the hereafter, which is guided by your life's purpose. The recommendations mentioned above primarily pertain to material possessions that you will inevitably leave behind when you pass away. However, for everything else that you will carry the outcome of those into the afterlife, do not limit yourself to modest goals. Instead, aim for objectives those are grandeur. Compete with others in acts of righteousness and in contributing positively to humanity. This is the ultimate path to success.

In summary, by setting clear materialistic goals, guarding against
external influences, and distinguishing between material desires and spiritual
aspirations, you can navigate the materialistic world while staying true to
your higher purpose in life.

Stage 5: Limit artificial lifestyle

If you find yourself at this stage, you may already be doing well in your life. However, if you're seeking to truly elevate your life to next level then consider embracing a more natural way of living by reducing your reliance on artificial products and services. To be clear: not everyone needs to reach at this stage because of the availability and exposure to the artificial lifestyle. However, individuals who are exposed to excessive artificial life and living at the higher levels of Maslow's hierarchy of needs might find it necessary to reach this stage.

Artificial or synthetic products have undeniably improved our lives significantly, including innovations like electric lighting, televisions, computers, smartphones, and social media. These inventions are remarkable, and our civilization should continue to develop new products and technologies. However, unbridled and excessive use of these artificial amenities can disrupt the balance in our lives. It's crucial to remember that human evolution occurs at a gradual pace due to the inherent nature of our biology. Attempting to defy this natural pace is unwise.

For instance, for thousands of years, we satisfied our social needs by engaging with real people in person, allowing our brains to process social interactions at a manageable rate. In contrast, social media has completely altered this dynamic by providing a constant stream of social interaction without genuine physical contact. This change has led to our brains receiving dopamine from social media usage, potentially harming our neurons and undermining our natural sources of happiness. By limiting our time on social media, we can allocate more time to genuine, in-person human interactions. [ix]

This is just one example. The closer we live to nature, the better our biological systems tend to function. Therefore, whenever feasible, consider reducing your reliance on artificial aspects of modern life and embrace the therapeutic benefits of immersing yourself in nature through every possible means at your disposal.

Final Stage: Live for a purpose

It's important to recognize that what follows isn't an isolated stage but rather an overarching principle that should permeate all stages of life. The preceding stages are aimed at promoting a healthy body and mind during our time in this world. However, what value is there in leading a profoundly healthy life here if we depart from this world unprepared for the eternal one? Throughout human history, billions of individuals, much like yourself, have come and gone from this world. So, it behooves us to ask: Why are we brought into this world? What awaits us once we depart from it? If you've already discovered the answers to these questions, then kudos to you. The subsequent question is whether you are actively preparing for that journey.

But if you haven't yet arrived at those answers, then it's crucial to pause whatever you're doing now and seek those answers. Our Earth has existed for approximately 4 billion years, humans have inhabited it for thousands of years, and our lifespan here is limited to around 100 years at most. That's an infinitesimal fraction of the Earth's history. You fall into one of two categories: either you're absolutely certain, with substantial evidence, that there is no God (as an atheist), or you need to explore the truth about the existence of God and adhere to His guidance for your own salvation.

If you remain uncertain and continue to drift through this fleeting life, you're ultimately deceiving no one but yourself. Imagine this situation as akin to someone on a cruise ship approaching the precipice of Niagara Falls. They know they will soon reach the edge but take no action because they haven't deciphered the physics of what happens when they go over the falls. Instead, they decide to enjoy their time on the cruise ship and neglect to contemplate the imminent plunge. Just remember, that there’s no return once you are at the edge.

Once you come to terms with this reality, dedicate your life to pursue a career in the context of life's purpose. It doesn't matter which field or industry you are involved in, as long as that’s not immoral or harming others, whether it's science, technology, engineering, construction, politics, business, food, entertainment, arts, or religion. Devote your efforts to contribute to the greater purpose of your eternal life.




[i] https://bmjoncology.bmj.com/content/2/1/e000049

[ii] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4436748/

[iii] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4701942/

[iv] https://oehha.ca.gov/proposition-65/about-proposition-65

[v] https://oehha.ca.gov/proposition-65/proposition-65-list

[vi] Disposable paper cups release tiny plastic particles, harmful ions

https://www.nature.com/articles/nindia.2020.173

[vii] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7906952.

[viii] https://www.dhs.wisconsin.gov/chemical/pfas.htm

[ix] https://sitn.hms.harvard.edu/flash/2018/dopamine-smartphones-battle-time/

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